Deciphering mixed dating signals
We realize we like them and communicate our attraction through body language and conversation.There is no other way to become enamored with someone, and they with you, than to exchange thoughts, ideas and signals.You’ve been giving him everything he wants, and he’s not had to do any work. #2 He texts to see what you’re doing, but never calls and never asks you to do anything.So if you’re the girl who has been playing along, because you think you can change his mind and a month from now, he’ll want to date you. This guy is great at texting, always wanting to know what you’re doing, if you’re going out, and whatever else he decides he wants to know. No, this guy is checking in with you, and possibly with a slew of other girls, to see where you’re going out tonight, what bar you’ll be at, etc.This also means he wants to keep his options open, and maybe meet and mingle with whoever he pleases.If you’ve been giving him all the ‘perks’ of being in a relationship, without actually being in one, why would he change?Are you confused with what the guy you like says and does? #1 He says he likes you, but he isn’t looking for a relationship.If you are crushing on a guy, and he tells you this, run.
The fact of the matter is, if a guy likes you, he will not only tell you he likes you, he will show you, and he will definitely want to be with you.
But what’s the best way to decode your date’s signals?
We can all remember a time when you meet a great guy who promises to call. Men have been taught women are turned off by guys who seem over eager so they play it safe. Simply put, it just wasn’t meant to be and you should move on, quickly.
Instead he sends a brief text announcing that he is too tired to talk and will call you tomorrow. Instead he pings you on Facebook the day after tomorrow and invites you to a happy hour with a group of his friends.
At the happy hour he flirts with you, but also flirts with another girl in the group.