Guy dating behavior
I’m typically attracted to alpha males so I was very confused by his behavior.After 6 months I asked him what we were and he said “you want me to be your boyfriend” then we are boyfriend/girlfriend!No, not the guy who said all of these offensive things or treated a woman disrespectfully.They blamed themselves—for choosing him, not ending it sooner, for texting him back when they should have remained silent, the list goes on.He communicates with me daily, mostly through text message, to which I always respond warmly.My question: We’re texting everyday, but he’ll wait FOREVER, (in actuality, 5-7 days) before asking to see me again. Is this a downside of dating a typical beta (i.e., no initiative) or is he just not that interested in me?When you’re done reading this, give him a call to find out if he’s around this weekend. I suspect that’s all you’ll need to seduce him into becoming your boyfriend.And if, in fact, he’s just not that into you, you’ll figure that out quickly, too.
I just couldn’t keep it up after 9 months that he would never make a plan or cancel due to work.Basically, WHD was written for alpha females who want to date alpha males.It was a way to open your eyes about how the men you’re the MOST attracted to don’t necessarily want to date you in return.“Doing nothing” as I describe in WHD works with take-charge guys because those guys don’t need you to take charge. So instead of extrapolating my advice to apply to every man, make an adjustment based on the man you’re actually dating.The good news is that, if he’s a true beta, he’ll be THRILLED that you’re taking control.
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Do I continue to utilize patience or should I move on?