Long become exclusive dating
You may have never had “the talk” because many of our 21st-century dating rituals are now painfully drawn out.
We spend weeks using memorized and mirror-practiced pickup lines, months remaining in undefined grey areas, and many of us have even put off the idea of “the one” in favor of just having a good time for years.
But when it comes to “the talk”, is there a difference between how long men think you should wait versus women?
Women seem to always be the ones fretting about the exclusive talk, but in reality, they seem to believe the time spent in the grey area should be about 11 weeks or at least a couple of months.
On the other hand, if you wait too long to have the conversation, someone could get hurt (like a year later).
Plus, to complicate things even more, there are many people out there that expect exclusivity from the start.
Decide what’s best for you, don’t get ahead of yourself, and never waste your time with someone that doesn’t realize your worth.
Looking back on my single days, there are so many things I would have done differently if I knew then what I know now.
So many of these things we learn only from experience; from learning about life and love .
I’ve been here too many times to mention but I’ve never quite known if there was an unwritten rule for how many dates before relationship talk should make it into conversation.
I’m sure you’re the same so I’ve done a little digging to see what the general feeling is on it.